Wednesday, June 1, 2016

Mississippi: Where Smiles live

 Mississippi joined the Union as the 20th state in 1817, and the name of the state came from the Mississippi River, which makes up the western border of the state. Early citizens of the state which will became Mississippi included the Choctaw, Natchez, and Chickasaw. Spanish explorers arrived in the area in 1540, but it was the French who made the first permanent settlement in present-day Mississippi in 1699. During the first half of the 19th century, Mississippi was the top cotton producer in the United States, and owners of large plantations depended on the labor of black slaves. Mississippi left the Union in 1861 and suffered greatly during the American Civil War. Despite the abolition of slavery, racial discrimination endured in Mississippi, and the state was a battleground of the Civil Rights Movement in the mid-20th century. In the early 21st century, Mississippi ranked among America’s poorest states. 
    Last week I along with my boyfriend travel down to Jackson (the state capital) Mississippi. The visit was due to the fact that my younger sister was graduating high school. From Detroit to Jackson is a 14-hour car ride, in which my boyfriend and I endured. Once we enter the great southern state, we start to notice the difference. As we the main interstate the is I-55, it seems to us that if you wanted to go anywhere in the state you had to take that route. It was my boyfriend’s first time in Mississippi, and I could not wait to see how he would react to the city. I been to Mississippi twice in my life, and I call Mississippi my second home because my family starts from Clarksdale and Lyons, Mississippi. 
    After we saw the “Welcome to Mississippi” sign on the interstate, we still had two hours left before we reached our hotel. We saw countless big rigs on the road as we drove to our hotel. My boyfriend loved to look at the houses we drove by. Once an hour pass, we both was ready to be just out of the car after thirteen hours in the car. We pulled over to fill the car and switch drivers. Another hour to go in the car, I never wanted to lay down in a bed in my life. We stayed at the Regency Hotel in Jackson, and it was minutes away from downtown. The outside of the hotel could turn some people off, yet once we walked in it was beautiful and gives a courtyard in Italy vibe. At the front desk, they sell little snacks and personal items anyone could need during their stay there. The staff was super nice and friendly, and that is something we are not used to in Detroit. Our room was nice, clean, and cool.  
    During our time in Mississippi, we notice the big cultural differences between Detroit, Michigan and Jackson, Mississippi. In the south, manners rules. What I mean about manners rules is the citizens are always friendly, smiling, saying please and thank you, and in Detroit the citizens use their manners as well, yet due to the cultural differences and climate they do not use them as often as they do in the south. 

    The trip was super fun because I got a chance to see how life moves so fast, yet enjoy the moments to slow down and look around you and enjoy the scenery. I strongly love the idea of people getting out of their home state and spend time in another state. Go for a drive, train, or take a flight and enjoy the state or city for its natural beauty and find out what the locals do for fun. 
    

Sunday, January 24, 2016

The night I was saved by the 90s

   
     It started out to be just a regular night out, just me and my boyfriend,yet it turn out to be uncontrollable fun. As we waited outside to get into St.Andrew Hall, we was just talking about how we both needed to just relax and distress from the past busy work week. We both was under the impression it was just going to be your normal club party,but we was so wrong.

     Once we walked into the hall, you hear DJ Bet (the DJ for the night) spinning all the goodies from the 1990's. This made sense to me since it said Saved By the 90s on our tickets. My boyfriend goes to talk to the DJ which I found is one of my boyfriend's coworkers. Now the music is blasting and people all in the venue  and huddle over at one of the two bars. People dancing and looking at all the cool 90's fashions. We danced and shared fond memories that were attach to certain songs that where playing all around us, when we hear the theme to Save By The Bell comes on over the speakers. That's when the crowed went crazy, and now I feel like I am missing something.

DJ Bet
     The Band Save By the 90s COMES OUT! YO! IT WAS A BAND! I was so shocked. I didn't know it was a band and neither did my boyfriend. The fellas started to play all the great songs of my young life. They played a little Green Day, Smash mouth and more. It was beautiful how great the crowd was how everyone was dancing with everyone and sharing memories of a decade that had long passed. In that moment I relived all those nights watching MTV and watching all of those videos. Then they had their female singer comes out, she started to sing "I'm just a girl" by No Doubt.
SAVEDBYTHE90S




     They finish their first set and told us to tweet the band on twitter with any request for the second set. DJ Bet came back and keep the party going. The night was a blast, and something totally different than I thought it would be. With everything that is going on in the world, expectantly with racism, to look around at a crowed room and see everybody getting along with one and other and sharing life stories through music was great.

     The band comes back out to do their second set. During the set they showed some city love by performing a song from our local artist. I'm not telling what song or who but I post a video below that answer that question.

 They really rocked the stage. The unknown fact about Saturday night is that was my first time seeing a live band concert.  All in all, I had a great time and would tell anyone if Saved By the 90s is in their town to go see them and they will not regret it. I know I don't. Make sure you follow the band on Twitter and Instagram @SavedBythe90s and let the band know I sent you. Rock on from the Rock City.


Monday, November 16, 2015

health in the medical field

I want to start off by saying that I am not a doctor or anyone who is in the position to give any medical advice. Once again I am not a doctor, I am posting this to shine a light on one of the least known jobs in our health system.

The job I am talking about is Patient Safety Attendant or better known as Patient Sitter. This is job is very under appreciated job in the hospital. The job entails a person who has CPR training at the least to keep visuals on a patient or patients( 2 is the max to watch for one sitter) for a minimal of eight hours. The hard part is being ripped from our socialist world for that long with no access to the outside world. You are not allow to have cellphones, iPod,iPad, or heavy reading materials. You must keep your eye on the patient and take mental notes of the patients' activities and the activities of the visitors.

The reason I think this is a hard job is because the  human mind wonders and you are force to stop your body from doing something natural for a small amount of money. Some health systems will give you a hour break like to unwind from the stress cause by the patients where some will only give you 30 minutes. I can say for me in this job it is hard to work in that position for more than six month. I notice I started to form panic attacks and the feeling of "the walls caving in on me" even when I was at home.

I feel that more medical professionals should respect Sitters more because we are doing a job you do  not want to do. We do more than just sit on our butts. We have a more mental job and means that our job is 90% mental in which just because you can not see our work like nurses and doctors do not mean our job is less important. Please be more conceited to us and our needs cause this is a hard job too.

Thursday, July 16, 2015

This is not your Grandma Class anymore!!

 This week I went to a senior aerobic workout class with my mother. In my mind, I thought I was in for a hour long class where everyone do aerobic moves while sitting in a chair. Once I walked through the door, I knew this would not be anything how I thought it was going to be. I walked in  with my mother and the room filled with a roar of good mornings and hellos towards my mother and I.

We went over to the front table and sign in and pay our $2. My mom walked me around to say hi to everyone. Once the teacher walked in everyone found them a chair and got ready to stretch. The teacher was full of life and energy. The class stood up and worked out to a up beat song.

The class did low impact moves, yet it was very fun and you really don't think this class was for seniors. The last 15 minutes the teacher was leading the class in a ballroom line dance and the "Wobble" hustle. Once the class was over, the teacher lead the class in a cool down mediation and prayer.

As the youngest person in the room, I was amaze how fun and positive the class was for me. The class itself is a community of support and love. Any time someone miss a class everyone notice it and check on them. I am help my mom is apart of this group. They go on trips and other fun activities. You will be surprise the wonderful gems you find at your local community center. I suggest you go to your community center and check out the classes they offer.

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Sunday, July 5, 2015

What is Couture?

Hello my wonderful readers,

I would like to state how sorry I am for lack of posting. Now , I am back with a post for your lovely viewing pleasure. *muah* enjoy:

Last month, I went to a fashion show in the near by city of Ferndale, Michigan. It was the first Annual Lavish Couture fashion show. Now that it was the first annual, I many would turn an eye to some issues that may have came up before, during, and after the show. I tried but somethings I can not turn an eye.

     Once I arrive to the location of the fashion show, the show was held at the Rust Belt Market, there was no clear line stating which line was for people who already purchase a ticket(regular seating is $25 and VIP seating was $35) from those who were buying their tickets at the door. Once the crowd made a line for their respected ideas, one of the desired viewer of the show let it be known that she was not happy about the way the door was being manage, since the worker at the door did not have change to provide her for her purchase of the ticket. She state how she had to buy a $7 dollar piece of cake just to get change to buy a ticket. We was shown into a white inclement in the center of the market. The chairs was arrange in a triangle formation. There we were told VIP's could sit anywhere in the front row. I pick my seat in front row and wait to see what would happen next. The show was promoted to start at 6 pm, which is still during market hours of operations, yet the show did not start until after 7pm. Let it be known that we had to wait 30 minutes after 6 pm arrive before we could be seated. There where no clear sign of the start of the show.

     The MC of the show was lack luster for the lack of better words. There were microphone issues all night, and the deejay was missing his mark with the start and end of the designers shows. The live band was the best musical entertainment that night. As a VIP, along with front row seating, I receive a hookah. The hookah was set up across the room. The was no way of checking who was VIP and who was not. There was not a enough hookahs to go around so I did not partake of the hookah in which I paid for. The designers where up and coming in the fashion scene and some of their work shows that. The fashion was not my style so I would not say anything bad about the outfits, yet do to the microphone issues I was unable to hear the names of the designers. There was one store to have a spot in the show. First Lady Boutique had nice pieces yet they showed mostly prom style dress. With all I found wrong with show, I was happy to see Detroit to show other sides of it's self than music.

 Here is the link to all the photos from the show: https://drive.google.com/folderview?id=0B4FFmF39HjBQaWF6c2t1ZTlQb1U&usp=sharing

    The best part of the show was the introduction to a wonderful organization called Purity in Pink. It is a organization that set up young girls with mentors and tools to help improve their self esteem and self development. This is a great organization to have around for young girls today because of the bullying issue that have grown over the years. As a survivor of bullying, as a child an organization like this would have me out so much. If you want to know more about the organization go check out their site at www.purityinpink.wordpress.com and they always need more mentors.

Sunday, January 25, 2015

Living the Limelight

Hello Everyone!



If you are in the mood for nice drinks, games, and just plain old good time. You need to go check out Limelight Bar and Grill located at 30200 Van Dyke Avenue, Warren, MI 48093. It's a fun place to be on a Saturday night or any night. Large Bar in the middle, full menu of wonder food,  karaoke if you dare (wink,wink), and free wireless internet are just the minor things this place offers. They have daily specials as listed below: 

Happy Hour Every Day from Opening til 7:00 pm
Tuesday – Trivia Night – 8:00 PM
Wednesday and Friday featuring Karaoke – 9:00 PM – Close
Thursdays  Live Music !!!
Ladies Night every Saturday Night 8:00 – 10:00 PM
Saturday – Live DJ starting at  9:00 PM

They are open : 

Monday – Friday 10:00 am – 2:00 am
Saturday – 11:00 am – 2:00 am
Sunday – 12 Noon – 2:00 am

 I discovered this little gem one Saturday night. I went to the movies and the night was still young, so while driving down the street from the movie theater I saw a little bar, and it was decided that it was worth checking out. 

The music was blasting, people shooting pool, the 25 HD  televisions had on all the sport reviews, and people drinking and dancing. The place was packed. The played all types of music genres. The dance floored stayed packed. It had the atmosphere of a party at your best friend's house. The staff was very friendly and partied right along with us at times. I am diffidently going back there, and you should go check it out for your self and check out their website for more information. http://limelightsportsbar.com/