I know this, I am late posting this, but I had to make sure I
was clear in this post. I AM AN ALLY!!! I am also a Christian. With National
Coming Out Day just passing on the calendar, it made me think about my gay and lesbian
friends who came out to me in the past. The one thing they all had in common
was they were afraid I would no longer be their friend, but that was far-removed
from the truth. Yes I do have strong religious beliefs, yet I follow one major
rule of my faith and that’s “thou shall not judge”. All I care about is if that
person, rather boy or girl, is treating you with respect and love other than
that I don’t care who you date. I
SUPPORT GAY MARRIAGE!!!! I don’t understand what the problem is. I am working on
a degree in Psychology, and I can tell you there is no real proof that a child
growing up in a household with Same Sex parents are going to be gay or have
terrible psychological issues. If they found someone they want to be with for
the rest of their lives, and want to marry them. LET THEM!!!!! The world will not end and society will keep going on.
There
are 3 gay men that are my world. I call them my gay husbands. The nickname came
about because they all have qualities I look for in my husband, and if they were
straight I would totally date them. They are ranked by who came into my life
first. I start backwards first. Husband
#3 I call him white chocolate. He is the newest member of the group. I met him
through husband #1 because that’s his boyfriend. He is totally sweet and kind
guy. The first time we met was at my birthday party last year. I know we have
many more years of memories to come, so stay tune for that. #2 husband is my
down for whatever husband. He’s also the only husband that watches Rupaul’s
Drag Race with me. We talk about the makeup and dresses and the runway of all
the queens. He is also the photographer of this family. He also keeps me up on
all the underground artists and music. Now we reach the top dog of the group.
Husband #1 is my protective and most professional out of all 3. We met 7 years
ago and ever since we been together. All this boyfriends have to meet a
standard that I have for him (I got to make sure he is a good man that’s all)
and the same goes for my boyfriends have to meet his standards. He had opened
my eyes to so much. He helps me with my budget, school, resumes, men/dating/
fashion, and my new project losing weight. He always keeps me on track to
reaching my goals just like the other husbands. I don’t know where I would be
without him in my life. He spoils me almost like a real husband, and our 7th anniversary
is coming up October 17. Yes, we
celebrate an anniversary. I love all my husbands equally. One day I will be at
their weddings. I just wanted to tell
all the young or old people out there that are scared to come out to
friends/family. It’s OK to be who you are completely. If they truly love
you then they will accept you for who you are, don’t for one second think that
someone who say they love you truly do because if they are trying to get you to
chance who you are, or make you feel ashamed of who you are then they don’t truly
love you. I LOVE YOU ALL!!! KEEP YOUR HEAD UP!!
Remember YOU, YES YOU, YOU ARE PERFECT and were created by the most high
and HE DID NOT MAKE NO MISTAKE WHEN HE CREATED YOU!!!!!!!!! *kiss*
