Needy Man

I'm sorry you guys! I know it's been a long time since I last post something for you guys, but school just started back and I was busy with that. Here is a little rant about what's been happening to me lately with accordance to guys.

Is it me, or are guys now a days supper needy? When I say guys I am not talking about all men, so fellas relax. I notice that a lot of guys are super needy. When I say needy I mean they always asking "so when am I going to see you?" or my favorite (sike) "when we gone to chill". That is a major turn off to me when guys say this. To me personally, if you want to talk, chill, hang out, or date me you can not ask me this. In my opinion you should make a move to spend time with me. If I am talking to you, you would know my schedule and what time I have free, so try to set something up during that time. You the man, don't make me set up all the dates and meetings.

Today, the oldest of my little brothers left a comment on one this  "Meme" I post on my facebook. It said:

"Hey sis. Can I give you some advice? You should never make promises you can't keep. Everybody falls. The question is whether or not you get. You may fall, but you better always get back up. Now that is a promise you can keep." 

     I chuckled after I read it because he's right. I re-read what the "Meme" said and I could see how he came to this point.  His comment motivated me to write this post today.

     It's true, we all fall. We all have something in our lives that made us weak or "fall", but no matter how long it takes we always should get up and keep going. There have been many times in my life where I had fell, and double of those times I got back up.

    You should NEVER let something, someone, or even some event stop you from your goals in life. If life gives you a dead end, always look around because there is always a detour sign to help you get to your goal. I know it is hard and easier said than done, but once you see that you met the goal you be so happy that you kept going. The struggle is just that a struggle. Struggles do not last always, but you got to have the strength to over come the struggle, and not let the struggle you been through define who you are and what you do. It's OK for people to see you trip, stumble, and even fall, but it's more important for them to see you get up, dust your self off and keep going. To all my readers, remember you are bigger than what you are going through. You will come through the storm you currently in better and stronger than you was while you was in that storm. keep your head up.