Hello there!!! It's the seasoning of giving!! I notice a lot during this time of the year that many people are wrapped up with the whole idea of receiving a gift instead of giving.Giving can mean many things, you can spend time helping in your local communities, you can spend time at a nursing home(spread joy there cause many of the people don't have love ones who visit them), and give to the needy in your communities. There are so many different ways to give back all year around and not just around Christmas.
This is also a time to be thankful, and you should really be thankful all year long. I'm thankful for everything in my life the good and the bad. I could go on and on about what I'm thankful for, but I want to hear from you so in the comments below tell me what you're thankful for..
Not your ordinary blog, yet it is a flow of words that will lead you on an experience like no other.
Thursday, December 12, 2013
Saturday, December 7, 2013
What to do with a "pushy" lover?
Hello Everyone!
I normally do not like to talk about personal business online rather it's mine or someone else. This post was a request from a friend of mine that wanted all of you to help him with a problem. This is his problem: He is in a strictly sexual relationship with someone, who is more than half his age, older than him. They known each other for a while and been "together" for 6 months. She refuse to accept that they are just "sex buddies" after he had repeatedly told her that he did not have romantic feelings for her and that it was "just sex" for him. She has even confess that she loves him. He told her that he do not feel the same for her, but she not having it, and keeps on referring to him as her boyfriend after he have told her he is not her boyfriend. He have stop her from cooking for him and going out or anything that can be seen as a date. Because of the large age gap many of you may be saying to yourself.."He doing it for the money" which I can tell you that is not the case. He has a job and a college degree, and has always taking care of his own business.
I told him that he should just leave her alone. If they are not on the same page then it is time to cut the cord. Now, he wants to hear from you my lovely readers. Should he cut ties with her or should he get into a relationship that he is being forced into just to be nice to her? Leave your advice in the comments below.

I normally do not like to talk about personal business online rather it's mine or someone else. This post was a request from a friend of mine that wanted all of you to help him with a problem. This is his problem: He is in a strictly sexual relationship with someone, who is more than half his age, older than him. They known each other for a while and been "together" for 6 months. She refuse to accept that they are just "sex buddies" after he had repeatedly told her that he did not have romantic feelings for her and that it was "just sex" for him. She has even confess that she loves him. He told her that he do not feel the same for her, but she not having it, and keeps on referring to him as her boyfriend after he have told her he is not her boyfriend. He have stop her from cooking for him and going out or anything that can be seen as a date. Because of the large age gap many of you may be saying to yourself.."He doing it for the money" which I can tell you that is not the case. He has a job and a college degree, and has always taking care of his own business.
I told him that he should just leave her alone. If they are not on the same page then it is time to cut the cord. Now, he wants to hear from you my lovely readers. Should he cut ties with her or should he get into a relationship that he is being forced into just to be nice to her? Leave your advice in the comments below.
Wednesday, December 4, 2013
Un-Deathly Love
I am a hopeless romantic. Some one once asked me what kind of relationship am I looking for. I did not know how to describe in words my "perfect" relationship. Then it hit me, I only said "I want to be in love like Morticia and Gomez Addams". They looked at me with confusion in their eyes. It's true, I want my relationship to be like their relationship. No matter if it looks wrong to others it feels right to us.
The love that the Addams family couple has for each other is the most pure you will ever see in Hollywood. They may not be a real couple, but they are the go to for all standards of relationships and marriages. I love how after so many years they still love and lust after each other like it's the first time seeing each other.
I could go on and on about this couple, but I know I will at a later date,yet until then my friends go and watch the movies and youtube the television show. I see you later darlings.
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Tuesday, December 3, 2013
What is a "Friend" to you?
What are friends to you? No, I'm not talking about these friends, but
according to the Merriam-Webster dictionary the word means:
according to the Merriam-Webster dictionary the word means:
b : acquaintance
a : one that is not hostile
b : one that is of the same nation, party, or group
: one that favors or promotes something (as a charity)
: a favored companion
Do you agree with this definition? I do in part. Yes, your friends are attach to you by affection. If something happen to your friend or even when they get sick, you always there to help them feel better. I don't agree so much with the esteem part because I do not understand what they mean by "esteem" in this content.
By this definition, your mate can be called a "friend". This question came to my mind as I was hanging out with a long time best friend of mine. I always wonder how do we pick are friends. Is it true that our friends represent a part of us that we are not allowed to show do to our position in society? I also wonder what make you no longer want to be friends with someone. There are many different question that can come about with this definition, but I know for a fact in my case that my friends are my family, clear-mind in a storm, and shoulder to cry on. I could go on and on about this topic, but I want to hear from you.
In the comments tell me what the word "friend" mean to you.
Sunday, December 1, 2013
World Aids Days

Today is the world Aids Day! I want all of you that are sexually active to go get tested. Not just on the December 1st, but every 3 months. Its important that everyone knows their status no matter what "lifestyle" you live you need to know your status.
More
than 1.1 million people in the United States are living with HIV infection, and
almost 1 in 5 (18.1%) are unaware of their infection. Gay, bisexual, and other
men who have sex with men, particularly young black/African American, are most
seriously affected by HIV. By race, blacks/African Americans face the most
severe burden of HIV.
HIV Diagnoses (new diagnoses,
regardless of when infection occurred): In 2011, an estimated 49,273 people
were diagnosed with HIV infection in the United States. In that same year, an
estimated 32,052 people were diagnosed with AIDS. Since the epidemic began, an
estimated 1,155,792 people in the United States have been diagnosed with AIDS.
Gay, bisexual, and other men who
have sex with men of all races and ethnicities remain the population most
profoundly affected by HIV. In 2010, the estimated number of new HIV infections
among was 29,800, a significant 12% increase from the 26,700 new infections
among in 2008. Although represent about
4% of the male population in the United States, in 2010, accounted for 78% of
new HIV infections among males and 63% of all new infections. Accounted for 52%
of all people living with HIV infection in 2009, the most recent year these
data are available.
In 2010, white continued to account
for the largest number of new HIV infections (11,200), by transmission
category, followed closely by black (10,600). The estimated number of new HIV
infections was greatest among in the youngest age group. In 2010, the greatest
number of new HIV infections (4,800) among occurred in young black/African
American aged 13–24. Young black accounted for 45% of new HIV infections among
black and 55% of new HIV infections among young overall. Since the epidemic
began, an estimated 302,148 with an AIDS diagnosis have died, including an
estimated 5,909 in 2010.
Heterosexuals and Injection Drug
Users also continue to be affected by HIV. Heterosexuals accounted for 25% of
estimated new HIV infections in 2010 and 27% of people living with HIV
infection in 2009. Since the epidemic began, almost 85,000 persons with an AIDS
diagnosis, infected through heterosexual sex, have died, included an estimated
4,003 in 2010. New HIV infections among women are primarily attributed to
heterosexual contact (84% in 2010) or injection drug use (16% in 2010). Women
accounted for 20% of estimated new HIV infections in 2010 and 24% of those
living with HIV infection in 2009. The 9,500 new infections among women in 2010
reflect a significant 21% decrease from the 12,000 new infections that occurred
among this group in 2008. Injection drug users represented 8% of new HIV
infections in 2010 and 16% of those living with HIV in 2009. Since the epidemic
began, nearly 182,000 injection drug users with an AIDS diagnosis have died,
including an estimated 4,218 in 2010.
Now, its your turn to do research and get tested for your self, This time I need you to go get tested. Stay safe and wear a condom every time.
Wednesday, November 27, 2013
Thankful!!!
It's that time of the year again! The cold crisp of the air, and the beautiful colored leaves on the ground. The smell of home cooked food full up the house. This time of the year, we all set and share what we are thankful for.
I am thankful for a lot of the same things as you. I'm thankful for my family, friends, a good job, and a warm home to come to everyday. I realize a lot of us even me don't really understand how much we have to be thankful for. I am thankful to have able to share my thoughts with all of you. I am thankful for Glipho for reaching out to me to post some one of my blog post on their site. Don't worry I still post my blog here first. To all my faithful readers I ask that you down in the comments tell me what you are thankful for this year.
I am thankful for a lot of the same things as you. I'm thankful for my family, friends, a good job, and a warm home to come to everyday. I realize a lot of us even me don't really understand how much we have to be thankful for. I am thankful to have able to share my thoughts with all of you. I am thankful for Glipho for reaching out to me to post some one of my blog post on their site. Don't worry I still post my blog here first. To all my faithful readers I ask that you down in the comments tell me what you are thankful for this year.
Tuesday, November 26, 2013
New Age Bullying
On this topic, I have mix emotions, so I'm keep it short. The educated woman in me is all for ending all types of bullying, but the bullied little girl in me is screaming "fuck that!!! I was bullied and every adult in my life knew, but they counter act the bullying by raising me and gave me encouragements and self esteem."
I know bullying is wrong. In all honesty, it needs to end like yesterday. To every child/teen who are being bullied or have been bullied, don't let any one's negative words hurt you. Remember it's not your fault, the problem do not live in you it lives in the other person. Trust me, just follow your dreams and keep doing what puts a smile on your face, and when you are on the top you see how a rough sand paper can only polish a diamond, but it can not hurt it. I have this question. What are you going to do to the parents of the bully? I see on the news the children that were doing the bullying being put in jail, but think where did they learn that? Look at the parents of the bully. They had to see the signs that their child had a bullying ways. I learn through some of my bullies that they learned it from their parents, older siblings, and other relatives. Now, I ask this, don't you believe that the parents of the bullies should be punished too?
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